Date 2.0 — Reinventing how people meet
Looking for your dream man?
I'm looking for my dream woman.
I've had enough of dating apps, swipe fatigue and toxic games. So here's Date 2.0: one man, one test, one blind date. Honest, transparent, no fakes. And you stay completely anonymous — with a code, just like the old newspaper personals.
01 — About me
Mr. O. 37, 5'8”, always on the move.
Turkish roots, born and raised in southern Germany, moved to Munich at 16, then Berlin at 22 — these days I live wherever the next boarding gate is. Tech entrepreneur with my own company; for over 15 years I've been building software that lasts — for government agencies and large corporations, among others. I say what I think, sometimes faster than would be polite. In return, you always know where you stand with me.
I'm not looking for a distraction or a project. I'm looking for a woman who wants to be on the move with me — packing a suitcase as a way of life, not the exception.
“If you're looking for games: there are fantastic apps for that. This site isn't one of them.”
Honest facts — rough edges included
Mind & work
- Would rather build companies than castles in the air. Workaholic tendencies included.
- Wrote a technical book on cybersecurity. Yes, people actually read it too.
- Direct to the point of it stinging. Small talk isn't my sport.
- Impatient when things go in circles. Conversations included.
Air & travel
- Private pilot since 2012 — flies himself, not just economy.
- Aviation nerd: can name the type by the sound of the engine. Occupational hazard.
- Jumps out of planes — voluntarily. Skydiving is love.
- Constantly traveling — the passport is fuller than the closet.
Everyday life
- Can't cook — but an enthusiastic sous-chef. And afterward the kitchen sparkles.
- Loves doing laundry. Seriously. Clears the head.
- Runs a lot, works out, loves a good walk — movement is his reset button.
- Lives minimally: little stuff, lots of life.
Heart & honesty
- Loyal to the end — and expects exactly the same.
- No fan of the obligatory Valentine's Day routine — his better half gets gifts whenever, for no reason at all.
- 5'8”, slim — the six-pack is a work in progress. Has been for years.
- Taurus with the moon in Sagittarius: grounded, but the wanderlust always wins.
02 — What I'm looking for
Not perfection.
But character.
Age is a number — 21 and up. What matters more is what's behind it: values, loyalty, emotional maturity — and wanderlust. The test below checks for exactly that.
And yes, the secrecy has a reason: professionally and privately, I move in circles around very well-known people. Discretion isn't a quirk for me, it's a daily part of the job. So I'm flipping the script — and making a game of it: first you know my code, then my voice, then my face. Who I am, you find out on the date.
This is what I'm looking for
- A woman 21 or older who knows what she wants — a serious, committed relationship.
- Loyalty as a given, not a bargaining chip.
- Emotional maturity: talking instead of sulking, clearing the air instead of punishing.
- A life of her own, goals of her own — and a suitcase that packs fast.
- Humor that can dish it out and take it. And a real appetite to see the world with me.
- Absolute discretion. In my circles, famous faces are normal — what you see and hear there stays between us.
- A sense of play: whoever gets the code game and enjoys it, instead of trying to shortcut it, is already halfway there.
- Curiosity about the new — unfamiliar cuisines, tiny airfields, spontaneous detours.
No-gos — non-negotiable
- Drama as a hobby. Conflict is fine — theatrics aren't.
- Manipulation and games. Jealousy tests, silent days, power plays.
- Toxic patterns: control, phone checks, punishing instead of talking.
- Dishonesty — even the charming kind.
- “Let's see where it goes.” Not here.
- Indiscretion. Anyone who drops names or posts stories is out — before the first coffee.
03 — How it works
Three steps.
No swiping.
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Take the test
23 questions, about 4 minutes, completely anonymous. Values, communication, travel, relationship — plus a red-flag check that counts double. Answer honestly, not strategically.
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Get your code & apply
After the test you automatically get your code (BD-XXXX) — just like a classic newspaper personal. At 75% or higher the odds are good; below that you can still apply. No real name needed: just your age, a way to reach you, and three honest sentences.
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Blind date
I get in touch personally through your channel. Then: voice first, then face, then a public place, coffee or dinner. No expectations — just an honest beginning.
Next date slot
I'm on the move a lot — but for this, I land.
On … I'm keeping the evening free — for a blind date. Where? Wherever you are. I'm traveling anyway — you pick the city, I book the flight. Whoever has a code by then is in the running.
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04 — Travel bucket list for two
Eight trips.
One empty seat.
Everything here is meant seriously and unbooked — because the most important part is still missing. Number eight is yours.
Namibia by small plane
I fly it myself — you're up front on the right. Desert, Atlantic, nothing in between.
Tandem jump over Interlaken
Fall together once, before we take off together.
Japan in cherry blossom season
Two weeks, one rail pass, zero plan from day three on.
Lisbon over a weekend
The classic from the quiz — wheels up tomorrow morning.
Patagonia to the end of the road
Wind, mountains and the best kind of silence.
Northern lights over Iceland
Winter, Jeep, a thermos. The wait is worth it.
The Bosphorus at sunset
Turkish roots oblige: çay on the ferry.
Your suggestion
The list has one open spot. On purpose.
05 — The test
23 questions. One code.
Maybe a date.
Five categories: Values & Loyalty, Communication & Conflict, Lifestyle & Travel, Relationship Vision — and a red-flag check that counts double. At 75% or higher you can apply anonymously.
Takes about 4 minutes. Answer honestly — there are no “right” answers, only fitting ones.
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Your code
Your code — valid anyway
You can apply below the threshold too. I read every application personally — but I'll be honest: the odds of a match are considerably lower.
Anonymous application
Like a classic personal ad: no real name needed. You alone decide when I get to know more.
Note: your score is below the threshold — your application still counts, the odds are just lower. The free-text field is now your strongest argument.
Application received
Your code:
I'll be in touch personally. Remember your code — until the date, it's your only identity. That's exactly how it should be.
Code mailbox
Already applied? Check your mailbox.
Your code is your key: this is where I write back — invitation to the date slot included. No account, no password, no email required.
Messages
No new message yet — when I get in touch, it'll show up here first. Check back around the next date slot.
06 — FAQ
Fair questions.
Yes. This site is a real, private personal ad from one single man: Mr. O, 37, tech entrepreneur and private pilot, raised in southern Germany, today traveling the world, looking for a serious relationship. No platform, no agency, no fake — just one man, one test and one blind date.
Dating apps optimize for swipes, not relationships. If you want to meet a man for life, you need honesty instead of an algorithm. So here a compatibility test replaces the swiping — and a blind date replaces the endless chatting.
Yes. The application works like a classic newspaper personal: no real name needed. After the test you automatically get a code in the format BD-XXXX and freely choose which channel you want to be contacted through — email, Telegram or Instagram.
Because discretion is a daily part of my job: I work and move in circles around very well-known people. That's why getting to know each other here runs as a game — code first, then voice, then face. Who I am, you find out on the date. And that, by the way, protects you just as much as me.
Simple and safe: a public place — in Berlin or wherever works for us both — coffee or dinner, no expectations. You decide at every moment how much of yourself you reveal — the code stays your only identity until the date.
Not in endless swiping. A dream man who's serious shows up — with a name, values and clear intentions. That's exactly what happens here: take the test, and at 75% or higher apply anonymously with a code for a blind date.